I decided that since it wouldn't hurt at all, I'd start a new series called Love Lessons. It's all thanks to a classmate who asked me to return a favour by teaching him to woo girls. I took a look at him and quickly evaluated his assets: He's tall, dark and handsome. Has a way with words that could take a girl's heart away. Is a magician with many tricks up his sleeve. All in all a very stable guy who's a wonderful friend. And....he wants ME to teach HIM how to woo girls...
I realize that maybe I shouldn't teach him about, you know, the actual stuff, but the understanding part, something like a brand of love. However, I didn't also want him to simply adopt my standards without understanding them, thus the Love Lessons were born.
So, What Do You Want??
No, What Do You Really Want??
Don't answer that just yet. We're talking about your expectations for your love-life. To best answer this question, just take a seat during some free time, get a clean sheet of paper and a pen. Then, list out the characteristics your ideal girlfriend would possess. Think about it long and hard. Be brutally honest with yourself. Some guys like tomboys. Some girls like guys who aren't macho. It isn't a crime. You've got to know exactly what you want if you don't want to disappoint yourself after choosing someone.
Why this exercise? It's for you to be entirely sure of your expectations. Why? So that when you decide to go after someone, you will know that they are entirely "your cup of tea" or, in other words, they are able to live up to your expectations.
Remember, honesty is the best policy. Do not overstate or understate your expectations of your love partner. Both of these are equally dangerous.
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